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Friday, January 7, 2011

Grumpy to be grumpy

Twas a rough week. I won't go into details, but my heart was definitely pulled through the ringer and I am tired. Oh life. The fact that we're in the middle of cold, gray, ugly winter doesn't help... I try really hard to stay positive, but who am I kidding? I really hate winter. I'm cold all the time. It's grey and ugly. All I can think about are 90-degree days, sundresses and my bike. The blues are right on my doorstep, threatening to break down the door. It's the hardest time of the year for me. Once New Years is over, I'd be more than happy to skip right to April.

I've been fighting all week to stubbornly focus on the silver linings in my life. For one thing, it's not my nature to wear grumpy pants. They're too tight and itchy. I get so much joy from just living, most of time. Also, my life is blessed beyond all kinds of ridicularity and I know this. I feel so guilty when I get the blues because I know there are people in this world that have it much, much worse than I do. I have my health, I have my family nearby, I have an amazing circle of friends, my job is steady, I don't fear for my life whenever I walk out my front door (I have friends from places in the world where said safety is non-existent), I get to do what I love, I get to have crazy adventures with said friends doing things that I love... it makes me grumpy to be so grumpy, argh!

So! The silver linings!

Seeing my dance friends. We get serious separation anxiety during breaks. The initial greetings to each other after a time apart is a bit embarrassing... for others. You'd think we were separated by years and oceans... nope, just a few weeks.

Encouraging text messages from friends.

Reading and journaling next to a fire place.

My physical therapist. She's a miracle worker.

Kicking my own booty at the gym. And the dance studio.

Temps in the 40s yesterday and today. Such a welcome break from the bitter cold.

Dance projects! Oh, the dance projects I have coming up!! Nothing centers me more than immersing myself in my art/work/calling.

Making and executing plans to overhaul some areas of my life this year. Exciting!!

That's all I can think of right now. I know there were more, but that's a good running list so far. The fact that today is Friday doesn't hurt a bit, either. Here's to the weekend and more silver linings!



  1. It sounds like there are plenty of silver linings! I hope summer comes soon for you; I hate winter too.


  2. Reading and journaling next to a fireplace. Oh, that sounds incredibly enchanting! :)

  3. I've got my grumpy pants on too! Trying to fix that. Here's to silver linings!

  4. Encouraging text messages from friends are my fav too...xoxo

  5. sounds so cozy!

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  6. Hope you start feeling more happy soon, the silver linings are definitely there!

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  7. KICKING YOUR OWN BOOTY!!! I TOTALLY LOVE doing that too!!!

    smile lady!! xoxo

  8. I hate the winter blues! I get them, too, and let's be honest, how can you not when it's icky and gray outside? It sounds like you have a lot to be happy about, though - it will be sunny soon!

  9. Ugh I hate winter too ...I know this was a few weeks ago so I hope you're better now ...last week sucked balls for me. I'm glad it's over but now it's raining. Oh summer.

  10. Jessi, how many times am I going to have to click on your blog before I get to read a new post?! =)
    Yes, i'm hassling you to write something. I dig what i've read so far....I just want more.

    Hope you're doing well.